Before I turn the page on the calendar to September I wanted to note a couple of significant-to-us happenings:
August 20: Doug's central line was removed. It was done in Dallas at the speciality radiology lab. A physician's assistant and her nurse used local anesthetic. Doug was asked if he wanted to have it! He did not. He was told he needed to keep the dressing they put on for 24 hours then he can shower without my having to help dress the dressing.
We then drove around the corner to Dr. Collin's clinic to see our clinic "family". Doug wanted to thank them for their role in giving him back his life.
Tom, the valet parking manager, hugged both of us. Loretta, the building receptionist, hugged both of us too. She was thrilled to find out that Doug was in remission. She had been missing us. Because we had come every day for so many months we had become well acquainted. She asked if she could have our e-address to keep in touch. She is a single mom who we prayed through a difficult time in her life regarding her now freshman in high school daughter.
Upstairs we first met with Dale, our social worker. His office is just off the elevator on the same floor as the clinic. When we arrived at the clinic we noted some changes in the short time since we had been there. They now have grown so much they have had to move other doctors to another area of the building to allow Dr. Collin's clinic to expand.
We talked to Dr. Collins who happened to be at the desk when we walked in. We also were thrilled to see the head chemo nurse who had been vacationing in her home country. Her vacation started two days before we were released back to our Ft. Worth doctor so we had not had a chance to tell her good-bye. She was the one who came into Doug's room, said "Look at me", pointed her finger at him and declared "You WILL get well". That statement gave Doug the hope he needed to continue his fight. She is a very special lady.
Doug told me that going there again felt like it was his graduation!
August 22: In my last blog I indicated Doug would see our Ft. Worth doctor on Thursday. The appointment was on Friday. Doug had the nurses take off his dressing from the central line removal. Then he had the routine blood draw that happens 1/2 hour before he sees the doctor.
Doug's labs showed that he is still anemic but the lab numbers were higher than the last draw he had in Dallas. Dr. Mandell didn't recommend anything by way of blood for which we were both thankful. Doug is still having some pain in his spine. Dr. Mandell wants Doug to see a radiologist to talk about having a kyphoplasty. Myeloma has taken a toll on one particuliar area of Doug's spine.
The biggest news is that Doug was given permission to mow the lawn again as long as he listens to his body and doesn't push it too hard, pun not intended but since we don't own a riding lawnmower it was a very appropriate statement.
OK so I took the "rules" with us!!! Dr. Mandell reviewed them. When he handed them back to me he told us that he believes his patients in remission should enjoy life. He released me from being Doug's caregiver (gate-keeper is more like it no doubt!!!) and for me to concentrate on my own recovery.
After seeing Dr. Mandell we left directly for Dallas to attend the Southwestern Union Ministries Convention held over the weekend at the Anatole hotel, an incredible facility.
The word remission is such a welcome word. Hearing it again from a second doctor reinforced Doug's status in our minds. It still seems surreal but it is also not hard to get use too!!
~Carole
