There have been a few highlights this week regarding Doug’s progress. His beard is growing back. Not having to shave has been one of the side benefits of chemo (possibly the only other than ridding him of cancer).
Doug didn’t notice the “peach fuzz” on his face as fast as I did when I kissed him! He has been out of the habit of shaving now for several months. If hair on the chinny-chin-chin is growing can fuzz on his head be far behind?
He didn’t loose every hair on his head nor did he choose to shave his head. His challenge now will be to combine his “comb over” with his new hair growth which will no doubt be of an entirely different texture than before cancer. Other cancer survivors have told us that their hair not only came in at different texture but also a different color. I’ll keep you posted as to whether he becomes a blonde, brunette, or red head!
The last four days he has wanted to walk on the treadmill. Now to some of you this would be no big deal. For one who has been constantly in bed (and still feels better down than upright) this is a big deal. It provides him an even surface and something besides me to hang onto which I am sure makes him feel more independent.
On Friday Angela, the Physician’s Assistant, said that the numbers are exactly as they expect them to be and even hinted that they may take his NeoStar catheter out of his heart chamber in the next couple of weeks. That will make his showers much more convenient as now he has to have me help cover (think water proof) his dressing. We use Press and Seal™ the same product that I use in the kitchen to cover things without lids. Then I double seal the area with waterproof tape all the way around the dressing. Nurses change the sterile dressing once per week.
Finally after receiving IV fluids Friday Doug was given the longest time between appointments to the clinic. We’ve graduated from going every day at 8:30 to three times a week to two times a week. At his next appoint it will be once a week. They keep weaning him away from them back to his regular oncologist. This allows us to put our lives at home into our new normal.
Angela also told us something interesting that we had not heard before. We were talking about Doug’s being a “late adopter” wherein the stem cells didn’t take off as rapidly as is normally seen nor did his stem cells start making his own blood as rapidly as WE thought that they should be making it. Angela said, “We know that it takes 14 days from when the stem cells are infused until they start producing any blood at all. There is nothing science can do about speeding that up because that is how God made us.”
We have been so fortunate to be surrounded by fellow Christians in this hospital and at the clinic as well as to have so many Christians of varing persuasions of faith praying for both of us. You are the reason we are feeling so humbled and blessed.
~Carole
